Let's Love not Hate in 2011

It's now 2011 and I hope women has a whole can unite and stop belittling each other.
As woman, we face a lot of insecurities in one way or another:
- I'm to fat/skinny
- I'm ugly
- My hair is to short or nappy
- I'm to light/dark
- I have no chest / or butt
- I don't have a man
- My man cheats
- I have no friends
- My nose is to big/small
And the list goes on...

By feeling this way females tend to hate on each other because they may see another female with something they want and think they need and the hate begins.
By observing females as well as myself it's all about self love and confidence.

Now some woman may have confidence but may still lack self love, ie; "I know I'm pretty and I can get anybody I want." However, when females with that mentality get that somebody they take certain abuse or give to much when only little is given back and are not appreciated.

Now not all women have these problems and are the ones getting hated on but believe majority of women do have some sort of insecure problem. I have felt insecurities and also felt confident but continued to put up with certain things because I didn't love myself. We need to realize we all have something beautiful about us,from the loud-mouth ghetto hand waving girl to the geeky stringy haired no name brand sneaker wearing pimple face nerd. We shouldn't let what someone says or whispers about us deter us in life. Those who constantly whisper and snicker have yet to find out how to love themself. By hating and giving another female dirty looks will only tear you down and people will not have or give you the respect you want or deserve.
In 2011 I hope we can cease the hate and learn to love but love ourselves 1st.