REAL HOUSEWIVES OF ATL: My Input on Season 8 Episode 1

After watching the first episode of Season 8 of The Real Housewives of Atlanta I can easily see a lot of flames brewing. I love my Ratchet Sunday TV on BRAVO, so I can't wait to see the fires that will be set off. 

In the meantime, let's start off with Porsha Williams. She has totally grew into a new woman since her divorce. I was actually loving this new fiery woman, but uhhhh seeing her indulging herself on this younger non-attractive football player who she says: "He is so into me, and wants to really get to know me as a person." Meanwhile, the clip shows his hands are getting to know her and it was more physical than personal, if you know what I mean. Then they head to the bedroom, should I say more. Lol.

Cynthia Bailey is still not a story line favorite in my eyes but I guess the video of Peter Thomas slightly rubbing across a females chest gives her a story line some excitement... I guess. Despite the fact in my opinion they are making something so little into something so big, and with the help of Kenya and Melanie (Cynthia's sister who is telling all the business) it will really gets blown out of proportion. When they have a actual video of Peter kissing or actually rubbing on someones sacred parts then we can really boost their story-line.  

Kenya and Sheree Whitfield. Boy O' Boy. 

Sheree has returned this season and makes appearance at Cynthia Bailey's Eyewear launch party. Everything was running smoothly when she appeared until The Queen Of: I'm So Innocent but I Lovessss to Start Drama Kenya comes and starts throwing shade early. We all know, for all those who are fans and take watching RHOA serious, Sheree has had some financial issues and we know she hasn't finished her house from a few seasons back. We know Kenya has had her a renting issues in the past and in this episode she buys a uninhabitable home which she plans to make into Moore Manor. Anyway, she apparently will be Sheree's "neighbor" and was speaking to the other neighbors about Sheree's home which she conveniently brought up at Cynthia's event. Obviously, Kenya took the spotlight off Cynthia and on to herself trying to go in on Sheree. Kenya needs to worry about herself, which I see it is very hard for her to do!!! Maybe that's why she doesn't have a man she wishes for, or the children she yearns etc. etc. etc., all because she can't, her focus is on starting drama and worrying about other people. That's sad. 

Sheree said on her BRAVO blog:

Isn't this the same girl that screams, “Don't come for me unless I send for you?” Well, I don't recall sending for that package. Truth be told, what Kenya thinks about me is none of my business. However, let's be clear on a few things... Let me first welcome you, Kenya, to "MY neighborhood"! I've been in "the neighborhood" for fifteen years and counting. Not sure what so-called "neighbors" Kenya spoke to about me, but what she should have discussed with them was the house she purchased that everyone in "the neighborhood" knows to steer clear of! Now as a smart business woman, instead of being all up in someone else's business, she should have inquired about the home she purchased in the flood plain. She should have asked the so-called neighbors, “Is my house really sinking off the back hill? What should I do about this cracked foundation? How long has all of this mold been here? It's everywhere! How many floods can and have this house sustained? Should I keep scuba gear on deck? Why have there been so many buyers in the last year or two? Should I just start from scratch and tear this down? How will my guest get down my driveway without injuring themselves? Should I take Shereè some cookies? I heard she likes chocolate chip cookies!” I could go on, but no need, I'm sure you get the point. There are so many other questions or conversations that should have been had with the so-called "neighbors"! Girl, bye.

Sheree has won this round, since all her points all valid, regardless if she is not in her home yet (I had to throw that in there for the Sheree Hater's.)! By the way I'm glad to see Sheree back.

Let's save Phaedra and Kandi for after tonight's episode. I'm ready for the tea about the money Phaedra owes Todd, which shouldn't be a problem to pay since she has 3/4 high paying jobs. Also, Kim Fields will make her appearance tonight, so much to look forward to while watching. What would I do without my ratchet TV? I really don't know, lol.

We As Black Females Have to Do Better!!!

So I'm sitting here at work on a Sunday. Thinking about life and all that matters to  me.

I have found being a female of color in today's society is a hard. 
The reason is because of how some black females represent themselves.

I just had a discussion with a Spaniard and she and I was very much so on the same page.
A Black, mixed, Latina or Caribbean female can say "I'm different, I don't act like those girls ("hood" females) or I would never do that."

But guess what? Nobody cares, your skin is dark and that's all they see. 

In today's society the majority of females of color are having babies without being married, have 2-5 if not more "baby daddy's," on welfare, on section 8, work low end jobs, are quick to be disrespectful in public, sleep with another woman's man or husband and then want to fight her, but are the first ones to have Jordan's on their feet as well as their 4 kids feet, along with a iPad, the newest iPhone and that exotic Malaysian hair that cost around $300-$400 for 4 bundles (usually the amount you need to cover a full head.)

Do you see what I see? The priorities of colored woman are ass backwards!!!

A black female child was thrown around like a rag doll because she was disrespectful to a teacher, a school administrator and the police officer and society feels her being an orphan is an excuse to disrespect authority!!! Let me ask a question, and think on it very well before you answer. If your child was told to put a phone away, what would you expect your child to do? Bad mouth authority or kindly respect the wishes of the authority figure? 
If my mother had passed as well as my grandmother and YOU were an authority figure to me and I ignored you and any higher authority you called, would you think my behavior is OK? What would have you done? 
Growing up I knew better than to disrespect the teacher, because my mom would have beat my ass if she knew I was acting a fool in school. But I guess all of you on the student's side was allowed to act anyway you want and your parents would have not cared you failed to listen 3x. The last I check it was said: Three strikes and your out, and her ass got laid out!!! 

Meanwhile, Raven-Symone has a petition out against her because she said she wouldn't hire someone with a ghetto name. Well damn, me either. Starkeisha better have a appropriate middle name to put on that resume. Like really, nobody can have an opinion without someone get offended. A name says a lot and Starkeisha says uhhhhh I don't really want to hire you, unless your work skills out do the naming skills your mother/father/ or parents had. 

What people fail to realize a name like that says: 
1. Low Income Home 2. Single Parent Home 3. Raised in Poverty and probably has an attitude and 4. Most likely raised on Welfare. 
I know I don't want someone with a ghetto name acting ghetto while presenting my brand!!!

Which do you portray yourself as? Ghetto or Class.

A picture says a thousand words, what words do you want said about you??? 

We have to do better!!!

We as females especially Black females need to be better teachers. The youth are getting worse. Babies born constantly out of wedlock, lack of respect for a female, lack of respect for the men, people taking advantage of the system and passing the schemes to their children, morals being neglected, greed over loyalty, lack of love for God, females thinking its OK to give their precious piece of a vagina to guys without valuing themselves. 

We need to rise up! Teach the importance of respect, education, self-love, morals, love, being positive, loyalty and thinking out of the box. 

I know woman who have kids and instead of teaching a better way for their children, they are more focused on being with a man and a man that doesn't even treat them like a queen. A Queen is something a woman should value herself as,because that's what she is. A female will focus on running the streets rather than whats going on in her own home. I know woman that will be with a man for years and have 2, 3 + kids with them and think it is OK just to be the girlfriend. HELLO, if he loves you that much to be with you and have you mess up your body to bear his kids you should be good enough to his Queen, rocking that royal crown of marriage. I rather be a wife rather than a baby mom. However, if you think being a baby mom is a prize you need to re-evaluate how you feel about yourself, last I checked nobody wants a half of anything they want 100% of everything. We have to teach our children!!! Nobody wants 50 when they can get 100!!! 

A female will sit on Facebook going HAM on another female, meanwhile her baby daddy is beating her ass, she is being a side piece or can barely pay her bills. All the while your kids are observing everything you do. A kid will know all the word to COCO by O.T. Genasis but can't tie their damn shoe laces...like Hello where are the parenting skills???

Mainly these issues are more prominent in minority communities, making us a easy target for statistics, being prone to violence and insecurities within yourselves passing down to our children. 
I have never heard no other race of mothers call their daughter B*tch in public or "Shut the (bleep) up," when in the supermarket. If i'm of color and I look down on a female who does it imagine how a white woman who is married, has a beautiful home can afford more than is looking down upon your ass. Then you probably saying "(Bleep) that white (bleep)...she needs to mind her (bleeping) business," but you know you care deep down or otherwise you wouldn't have even mentioned what you think she is feeling or even cared if she put her nose up!!!

I know nothing i'm saying will probably touch your heart, your probably reading this thinking I throwing subliminal shots or how dare I say that or what nerve I have. If you are thinking that you are one insecure female and I hope at least you get the point of building love for yourself up and teach your children.  

SIDE NOTE: All men don't cheat, so stop telling yourself that to pacify the fact your man is cheating on you. I know it sounds good when you can involve others into your misery but uhhh NO, you need to value yourself more and you will then find a man that will value you and love you the way you want. Put out, what you want to get back.

PEACE