I have found being a female of color in today's society is a hard.
The reason is because of how some black females represent themselves.
I just had a discussion with a Spaniard and she and I was very much so on the same page.
A Black, mixed, Latina or Caribbean female can say "I'm different, I don't act like those girls ("hood" females) or I would never do that."
But guess what? Nobody cares, your skin is dark and that's all they see.
In today's society the majority of females of color are having babies without being married, have 2-5 if not more "baby daddy's," on welfare, on section 8, work low end jobs, are quick to be disrespectful in public, sleep with another woman's man or husband and then want to fight her, but are the first ones to have Jordan's on their feet as well as their 4 kids feet, along with a iPad, the newest iPhone and that exotic Malaysian hair that cost around $300-$400 for 4 bundles (usually the amount you need to cover a full head.)
Do you see what I see? The priorities of colored woman are ass backwards!!!
A black female child was thrown around like a rag doll because she was disrespectful to a teacher, a school administrator and the police officer and society feels her being an orphan is an excuse to disrespect authority!!! Let me ask a question, and think on it very well before you answer. If your child was told to put a phone away, what would you expect your child to do? Bad mouth authority or kindly respect the wishes of the authority figure?
If my mother had passed as well as my grandmother and YOU were an authority figure to me and I ignored you and any higher authority you called, would you think my behavior is OK? What would have you done?
Growing up I knew better than to disrespect the teacher, because my mom would have beat my ass if she knew I was acting a fool in school. But I guess all of you on the student's side was allowed to act anyway you want and your parents would have not cared you failed to listen 3x. The last I check it was said: Three strikes and your out, and her ass got laid out!!!
Meanwhile, Raven-Symone has a petition out against her because she said she wouldn't hire someone with a ghetto name. Well damn, me either. Starkeisha better have a appropriate middle name to put on that resume. Like really, nobody can have an opinion without someone get offended. A name says a lot and Starkeisha says uhhhhh I don't really want to hire you, unless your work skills out do the naming skills your mother/father/ or parents had.
What people fail to realize a name like that says:
1. Low Income Home 2. Single Parent Home 3. Raised in Poverty and probably has an attitude and 4. Most likely raised on Welfare.
I know I don't want someone with a ghetto name acting ghetto while presenting my brand!!!
Which do you portray yourself as? Ghetto or Class.
A picture says a thousand words, what words do you want said about you???
We have to do better!!!
We as females especially Black females need to be better teachers. The youth are getting worse. Babies born constantly out of wedlock, lack of respect for a female, lack of respect for the men, people taking advantage of the system and passing the schemes to their children, morals being neglected, greed over loyalty, lack of love for God, females thinking its OK to give their precious piece of a vagina to guys without valuing themselves.
We need to rise up! Teach the importance of respect, education, self-love, morals, love, being positive, loyalty and thinking out of the box.
I know woman who have kids and instead of teaching a better way for their children, they are more focused on being with a man and a man that doesn't even treat them like a queen. A Queen is something a woman should value herself as,because that's what she is. A female will focus on running the streets rather than whats going on in her own home. I know woman that will be with a man for years and have 2, 3 + kids with them and think it is OK just to be the girlfriend. HELLO, if he loves you that much to be with you and have you mess up your body to bear his kids you should be good enough to his Queen, rocking that royal crown of marriage. I rather be a wife rather than a baby mom. However, if you think being a baby mom is a prize you need to re-evaluate how you feel about yourself, last I checked nobody wants a half of anything they want 100% of everything. We have to teach our children!!! Nobody wants 50 when they can get 100!!!
A female will sit on Facebook going HAM on another female, meanwhile her baby daddy is beating her ass, she is being a side piece or can barely pay her bills. All the while your kids are observing everything you do. A kid will know all the word to COCO by O.T. Genasis but can't tie their damn shoe laces...like Hello where are the parenting skills???
Mainly these issues are more prominent in minority communities, making us a easy target for statistics, being prone to violence and insecurities within yourselves passing down to our children.
I have never heard no other race of mothers call their daughter B*tch in public or "Shut the (bleep) up," when in the supermarket. If i'm of color and I look down on a female who does it imagine how a white woman who is married, has a beautiful home can afford more than is looking down upon your ass. Then you probably saying "(Bleep) that white (bleep)...she needs to mind her (bleeping) business," but you know you care deep down or otherwise you wouldn't have even mentioned what you think she is feeling or even cared if she put her nose up!!!
I know nothing i'm saying will probably touch your heart, your probably reading this thinking I throwing subliminal shots or how dare I say that or what nerve I have. If you are thinking that you are one insecure female and I hope at least you get the point of building love for yourself up and teach your children.
SIDE NOTE: All men don't cheat, so stop telling yourself that to pacify the fact your man is cheating on you. I know it sounds good when you can involve others into your misery but uhhh NO, you need to value yourself more and you will then find a man that will value you and love you the way you want. Put out, what you want to get back.
PEACE
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